The Kiddushin

The Kiddushin (or the Betrothal) is the period that begins after the Ketubah. During this time the couple is legally married but there exists a period of separation between them. The bride and groom are set apart with undistracted devotion to one another, living in constant anticipation of their union. We need to live with this anticipation for the return of Christ. We need to look forward to the Nissuin (or the Marriage) and to the future celebration we will experience upon the return of the bridegroom. The quarrels between us today come to nothing in light of our future hope and glory.

There are many dwelling places in my Father's house. Otherwise, I would have told you, because I am going away to make ready a place for you. And if I go and make ready a place for you, I will come again and take you to be with me, so that where I am you may be too (John 14:2-3).

You people of this generation, listen to what the LORD says. "Have I been like a wilderness to you, Israel? Have I been like a dark and dangerous land to you? Why then do you say, 'We are free to wander. We will not come to you any more?' Does a young woman forget to put on her jewels? Does a bride forget to put on her bridal attire? But my people have forgotten me for more days than can even be counted (Jeremiah 2:31-32).

You yourselves can testify that I said, 'I am not the Christ,' but rather, 'I have been sent before him.' The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands by and listens for him, rejoices greatly when he hears the bridegroom's voice. This then is my joy, and it is complete (John 3:28-29).

Let us rejoice and exult and give him glory, because the wedding celebration of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready (Revelation 19:7).